Triggers: small and misread

Caitlin was at craft club at our Gym. She fell over, and bumped her head. They checked her over and saw she was ok, physcially, but they aren't aware of the mental implications. Caitlin withdraws in times of anxious-ness, so instead of crying and showing she's hurt or worried, instead of saying she needed to … Continue reading Triggers: small and misread →

A day trip to London

Sometimes, I wake up with this urge... I'm not sure if anyone else gets it, I'd be interested to know if people do to be honest. But basically, it's like an itch, I can't physically scratch it I can only relieve it by succombing to its desire; the desire to escape and explore. I woke … Continue reading A day trip to London →

Review: The Tate

After arriving into London by train, we took the tube to Blackfriars. It's a 5 minute walk to the Millenium Bridge to the Tate, which in my opinion added to the excitement and magic of the trip. We initially got a bit confused between the two towers and where to take the lift from for … Continue reading Review: The Tate →

Seasons Greetings

Dearest friends, family and followers... On the surface it appears I have abandoned this idea of blogging, but let me assure you, in the background many things have been happening. Right now I have 15+ posts pending pictures/proof reading and so forth. You see, the final quarter of the year is a very stressful and … Continue reading Seasons Greetings →

Why the hell are they still in your room?

So, our children have lived with us for over 2 years, and they go through periods of sleeping in our room and sleeping in their own room. We have even put bunk beds in our room and made it very cramped so that they actually have a proper bed to sleep in. We know getting … Continue reading Why the hell are they still in your room? →

Can’t find the remote…

I know, as humans, there are times when we find ourselves wondering what it'd be like if we had a magic remote that enabled us to pause, rewind or even fast forward life. Tonight, I am finding myself more in need of this all powerful, all magical and all enticing mystical remote than ever. Yesterday, … Continue reading Can’t find the remote… →

Silence. Being Unsettled.

Sorry. Once again. Sorry for my silence. One of the biggest problems in an adoptive placement is how quickly the settled can become unsettled again. And "unsettled" is definitely one word that could be used towards describing the last couple of weeks. Things got a bit disruptive, and then I got exhausted. Having trouble with … Continue reading Silence. Being Unsettled. →

Hoop Jumping: Endurance and pitfalls

Things have been intense here, hence silence… but it’s because of an appointment that was sprung on us. One we have been waiting for, but was arranged quite last minute. So we left our house at 7:30 in the morning to go to a private clinic (90 minutes away from our house) for a … Continue reading Hoop Jumping: Endurance and pitfalls →

Settling Developments part 2

Continuation of part 1 For Logan, things have been slightly more complicated, he was 6 by the time he came to live with us. By this time, he had been through so much with birth family, foster family, school and various professionals that he had learned that adults aren’t trustworthy. That’s how his brain has … Continue reading Settling Developments part 2 →

Settling developments part 1

Since being back from Santorini, my near breakdown experience of physically and mentally exhausting myself to get this new house in order has paid off greatly. I know my children very well, and though they love going on holiday, they always know it is temporary and by the end are longing for their home comforts; … Continue reading Settling developments part 1 →